Be Yourself and Live Your Purpose

The Fawn Response When Being “Nice” is a Survival Skill

You’ve heard of fight, flight, and freeze, but have you met Fawn?

In this episode, Roca Cruz unpacks the lesser known trauma response of people-pleasing. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, apologized for simply existing, or lost yourself trying to make others comfortable… this one’s for you.

We’ll explore:

• Why fawning starts as a survival strategy

• How it shows up in your daily life

• What it’s costing you

• And how to break free gently, bravely, and with God

This isn’t about becoming cold. It’s about becoming real.
You don’t have to disappear to be loved.

✨ Includes journaling prompts to help you come home to yourself.
🎧 Part 1 of our “Trauma and Purpose” series

Food Is Fuel – Eating with Purpose

What we eat shapes how we live. In this episode, we talk about how food isn’t just for energy or comfort. It’s a tool to help us live out our purpose. You’ll hear the story of John, a father who made powerful changes after a wake-up call, and how shifting to simple, home cooked meals gave him a new lease on life. We explore why one size fits all diets don’t work, how processed food and added sugar are silently hurting us, and why eating with intention matters more than ever. Whether you're just starting or restarting your health journey, this episode will help you reconnect with your body, your purpose, and your plate.

From Reflection to Action: Living Your Purpose

Welcome to the 10th episode of Be.Live with Roca Cruz, where we reflect on our journey of purposeful living and prepare for the path ahead. This episode is a pivotal moment of introspection and growth as we revisit the fundamental concepts of understanding our core values, building daily habits, and embracing resilience.

Dive into the essence of living your purpose not just as an idea, but as a daily practice. From facing and overcoming fears to living with integrity and clarity, this episode challenges us to align our life choices with our true values.

As we set a new course, our upcoming focus will be on maintaining the vessel of our dreams - our body. Prepare to explore how nurturing your health is crucial to living your purpose effectively. Join us as we transition from reflection to action, empowering ourselves to keep believing, growing, and embodying our best selves.

Resilience: Rising from Setbacks

Welcome back to Be.Live with your host, Roca Cruz. In this episode, we explore the theme of resilience and the courage it takes to rise again after setbacks. Discover how to navigate life's unexpected challenges with grace and determination.

We share Janelle's inspiring journey of turning a dream into reality, even after losing everything during the pandemic. Her story reminds us that setbacks are not failures, but opportunities for growth and change.

Learn how to embrace your own challenges, mourn your losses honestly, and take small steps towards rebuilding a stronger self. This episode encourages you to keep believing in your dreams and keep living with purpose, reminding you that every end is a new beginning.

Finding Clarity in a Noisy World

In this episode of Be.Live, host Roca Cruz explores the theme of Finding Clarity, diving into the challenges of hearing our own voice amidst the constant noise of external influences. We examine why clarity is elusive in today's fast-paced world and how disconnection from our inner compass leads to a life reactive rather than intentional.

Roca shares practical steps to cultivate clarity, encouraging us to create space for silence and reflect on questions that reveal our true values and desires. Through the story of Mateo, listeners learn the value of pursuing genuine passions over external expectations. Discover how aligning decisions with personal values brings peace and direction while eliminating unnecessary pressures.

Life in Focus: Tuning Out the Noise of Comparison

In this episode of Be.Live: Be Yourself and Live Your Purpose, host Roca Cruz explores the quiet but powerful force of comparison and how it can steal joy, derail dreams, and distract us from our true path. Through the story of Lara, listeners will discover how to tune out external pressure, set personal milestones, and stay focused on their unique journey. This episode offers practical wisdom on embracing your own timeline, celebrating small victories, and finishing life’s race with peace, integrity, and joy.

A Personal In..Dependence Day Journey

In this special episode of Be.Live, host Roca Cruz takes listeners on a deeply personal journey of discovering what true independence means. Commemorating Philippine Independence Day, the episode explores the historical significance of June 12, 1898, while also diving into the personal struggles and triumphs of finding genuine freedom beyond self-reliance. With music clips from the likes of Barbie Cradle and Kitchie Nadal, this episode celebrates not just a national holiday, but a day of personal liberation through trust, purpose, and faith. Join Roca Cruz in redefining independence, not as doing it all alone, but as finding peace and freedom through dependence on the truth and faith.

Unshakable Resolve: Awakening the Power of Self-Discipline

Welcome to this episode of Be.Live, hosted by Roca Cruz. Today, we dive into self-discipline, that powerful force that keeps us moving forward even when motivation fades. We explore how discipline is built through small, consistent actions and how it surpasses fleeting emotions and inspiration. Despite days when energy levels wane, self-discipline ensures we persist, strengthens our inner resolve, and shifts our focus from short-term comfort to long-term success.

Through Arthur's story, we see how shifting from reliance on motivation to building habits can lead to consistent achievements. Discover practical tips for journaling to enhance discipline and how facing challenges boosts mental and emotional fortitude. Remember, discipline isn't the absence of difficulties; it's about confronting them and crafting excellence along the way.